Empowering Visionaries to Embrace Their Flow in Service of a Better World
You have a vision for your highest self. But your actions don’t align with your vision. I can help you.
You have a calling. You see yourself doing great things. You know now is the time to stop playing small.
But you can’t seem to get out of your own way.
The weight of your vision feels like a burden. You are overwhelmed by the size and scope of it. You have been stuck for so long, it’s become hard to imagine yourself in flow.
Your stuckness is infuriating, too, because the nuts-and-bolts actions are clear to you. And yet you can’t seem to get a toehold. You try to step up, but you always find a way to break your own flow:
- Procrastination
- Perfectionism
- Compulsive and Addictive Behaviors
- Distraction and Lack of Focus
- Crushing Doubt
- The Harsh Voice of Self-Recrimination
- Identifying with a Lack of Success
As the days become weeks become months become years, we find a growing ache in ourselves, a pain that can be all-consuming, a profound shame. After a while it can be as though we are that shame, we cannot transcend it, and we have tried everything, and nothing seems to work.
And despite all of that pain, you know, you absolutely know, that you are meant for more.
Let me help you
My name is Benjamin Lanin and I help help stuck visionaries transcend their limitations through proven techniques, daily practices, and mindset shifts.
All of those things I list above: I have done all of those things. I have procrastinated and avoided and distracted myself and called myself every bad name. I have felt all the doubt, all the shame, all the self-recrimination. I have lived every path that denies me the vision I carried for myself. I held in my heart a beautiful, expansive vision for myself, and through my actions denied myself that vision.
I sometimes even wondered if it would be easier if I could just release my vision. Maybe I could just admit that I’m missing something that some people have, surrender to that understanding, and live a normal life.
But that’s never been an option. Even after years and years and years of being unable to transcend my stuck patterns, something inside me has been absolutely stalwart that I will never, ever, ever give up.
Eleven years of ardent spiritual quest helped me find the techniques and practices to allow me to transcend the old patterning and the old self-hate and self-abnegation. Now, every day, I bring my vision closer to reality.
This is what I want to share with you.
I know the techniques I teach work because I am living them.
Let me help you.
What a Session Looks Like
We’ll start with a simple question. “What is the problem you are trying to solve?” or “What can you use immediate help with?”
And then I hold space, listen, ask questions, and watch the flow of energy as you share.
The thing is, I do each of these things at the superpower level. I am a safe place for you to express your vulnerability, I truly listen, my capacity to question comes from that listening plus an agenda focused on you, and I see flow of energy with natural ease.
In most cases, you already know the answers to what you need to do. The way your energy does or doesn’t flow will make that clear. Sometimes, though, we get stuck in blocks. We just can’t see through something we’ve created in our heads. I’ll see your block, I’ll guide you until you too see it, and then I’ll offer you the tools to release it.
I’ve been told more times than I can count that just the way I listen leaves people feeling much better than where they started. If that was all I did, that would be really valuable.
But I also have a superhero-level ability to synthesize information. So after our session, I will take everything you told me and present it to you in a document to guide your forward movement from here. I’ll present the issues you face with a clarity and encapsulation that reduces your sense of overwhelm. Seeing them neatly encapsulated will reduce your sense of overwhelm. I will offer direct action that you can put into place immediately to begin to release your blocks. And in all likelihood, I will suggest you embark on some new daily practices that have the capacity to elicit powerful beneficial change in your life. The kind of things where an investment of fifteen to thirty minutes a day will, over a sustained period of time, lead you to vastly better life.
Until you have had space held for you the way I hold space, until you have experienced being listened to the way I listen, until you have been seen like I see,
And then my superpowers can come into play. I am a highly skilled listener, I use that capacity to guide with the right questions, and I do it all within a nearly magical holding of space.
The obvious words to use to describe what I do fall a little short of the whole expereince. Saying that I listen, ask guiding questions and hold space is a little like saying Bruce Wayne likes to play dress-up. It’s not untrue, but Batman is more than a guy in a costume, and I’m more than a pair of ears.